I have never been one to bite my tongue. At least not for a long period of time. Mom always taught me from a young age to never take any shit from anyone. I don't and I won't. Because of this I have been called a bitch, a drama queen, outspoken, heartless and a few other names that I shouldn't say but I am sure you get the picture. So, in other words, if I keep my mouth shut and play nice girl things will be fine and dandy. Well, that is just not me. If something is bothering me you can rest assured that the whole world is going to know about it. If you piss me off, 99% of the time you will not need to question why I am angry because I will let you know what is on my mind and I probably won't be nice about it.

I am a firm believer in "you reap what you sow". I also believe that trust and respect is something that is earned not automatically given. I am not an Indian but I also firmly believe in Karma. What goes around will come around back to you.

Anyhow, with all that said, I am honestly not a huge fan of confrontation. Ironic isn't it? When I need to confront someone or they confront me about something, I get all tense and nervous. Yet no matter what, I will stand my ground. I find that within my internet life I am always defending myself. It is for the simple fact that I am not ok with people thinking untrue things about me or spreading rumors about me. Even if it is just the internet, there are still real people behind these computer screens. In my real life, anyone will tell you that I say what I think and what I feel. On the rare occasion that I bite my tongue, it won't happen for long. If I do not get out my emotions, they eat me alive and I can not stand it. Call me selfish but I would rather piss someone off rather than deal with hiding my feelings.

Always say what you feel, don't hold anything back. Be true to yourself.